Really?
I vaguely know Tom, we have met a few times: Glastonbury,two years ago, most recently.
He would be flattered .Assuming I could arrange this (highly unlikely) he comes to the bar where you are drinking with your friends to serenade you. What song do you want him to sing?
Holy shit, random flashbacks to being a kid sitting on the living room couch watching Cagney & Lacey and getting a tad confused and uncomfortable whenever Sharon Gless was on the screen. Random kid crushes! 
-n
Thatās awesome! Thank you 
However, Iām in Toronto so Iām guessing itās super incredibly unlikely. My favorite though is Delilah which is funny when you consider what itās about and what this thread is. Iāll just state now that Iām certainly not advocating that! Itās an amazing drunken karaoke/sing (well, warble off key in my case) along song though! 
LOL
Sorryā¦ Canāt.Help.Myself.
Uh dude, you get that itās not simply āa sideā for me, right? Even though, I can put myself in anotherās shoes and see some of their pointsā¦well kinda. Iām speaking in the broader scope of the core issue here; Like the whole āpussy pass/women workers are nothing more than window dressingā thing, thatās not going to work out for me even if I were ever to try. Also for a whole lot of other women and, when you really think about it, the women who practice that are being sexist themselves. Yeah, I said it (so whoever wants to can pile on for āslut shamingā, ājust being jellyā or whatever), but fuck the world, Iām not a ānice girlā nor a āmean girlā and I have a right to exist even so. Thatās what it comes down to, eh? My very right to exist as I am unfettered.
Itād be nice if āsome womenā didnāt mean āall womenā in some peoples minds. I think that comes from people circle jerking only one perspective. Seriously though, I swear to gawd I donāt share a hive mind with radoms ex-girlfriend, the mean girl bully at work, etc. etc. I think a lot of people get caught up in Us v. them (and the āthemā all being a biased perception of āthemā) thinking like that. Thereās no doubt nothing is going to change unless the problem is first acknowledged and then addressed as best as possible. So while itās usually not pleasant, if you want to get rid of a hornets nest and all you have is a stickā¦you gotta do some poking. Thanks and thanks to everyone, especially the mods, for poking
Oh, totally - I was making a general point. I think you have proven on here that you like to explore different sides of an issue.
And if maybe if there were a procedure to put in belly windows. 