Uh dude, you get that it’s not simply “a side” for me, right? Even though, I can put myself in another’s shoes and see some of their points…well kinda. I’m speaking in the broader scope of the core issue here; Like the whole “pussy pass/women workers are nothing more than window dressing” thing, that’s not going to work out for me even if I were ever to try. Also for a whole lot of other women and, when you really think about it, the women who practice that are being sexist themselves. Yeah, I said it (so whoever wants to can pile on for “slut shaming”, “just being jelly” or whatever), but fuck the world, I’m not a “nice girl” nor a “mean girl” and I have a right to exist even so. That’s what it comes down to, eh? My very right to exist as I am unfettered.
It’d be nice if “some women” didn’t mean “all women” in some peoples minds. I think that comes from people circle jerking only one perspective. Seriously though, I swear to gawd I don’t share a hive mind with radoms ex-girlfriend, the mean girl bully at work, etc. etc. I think a lot of people get caught up in Us v. them (and the “them” all being a biased perception of “them”) thinking like that. There’s no doubt nothing is going to change unless the problem is first acknowledged and then addressed as best as possible. So while it’s usually not pleasant, if you want to get rid of a hornets nest and all you have is a stick…you gotta do some poking. Thanks and thanks to everyone, especially the mods, for poking